So yet another year has been commenced and ushered in, bringing with itself, hopes, dreams, aspirations, expectations, doubts and beliefs. 2014 was a stable year according to my understanding, a fast one which involved hard work and little bit of laying back and kicking it my style.
The new year defined by many by virtue of varied resolutions acquires a demanding identity, each time it is round the corner, coming across as a time for setting of a new rule. This whole resolution concept definitely adds to a mixed PR for the New Year, being perceived by some as a golden opportunity for self improvement, and perceived as a useless/illogical/ thoughtless and glib idea by the remaining.
The end of last year was a little dramatic for me ( never forget it's my over dramatised life full of unique characters and sudden occurrences ). My heart almost skipped a beat, and thought probably the time to fall for a cause is here, but unfortunately, my blurry hints and highly unresponsive responses have continued to carry forward the awkward-what is happening- we need to talk- vibe ahead. Vague and unclear, is what the whole frame looks like right now, with my highly flawed and futile attempts to save my little romantic side from drowning in the desperate sea of surrender.
I have met a lot of new people in the last one year, some interesting, some depressing, some non bearable and some totally worth living my life with. Every single person out of these has felt at liberty to provide a clear opinion about the betterment of my life either through a blunt statement like
" You need to get a boyfriend" or "You need to get out more" or "You need to take less stress ", or by means of suggestive and subtle idea being imposed gently upon me like " One must take control of life after graduation" or "Sometimes an Indian girl needs to just introspect" . It's interesting to observe how others naturally become a part of your life, without you realising when it happened and if you allowed it to. I guess that's how life works once you are busy, in a melting pot of generations and ideologies. Almost all people today feel qualified to effortlessly pass a judgement on others or a suggestion aimed at betterment in their view.
I realised that maybe I was indeed the only one putting myself in various shoes for the comfort of others at every other opportunity I got, while the others were set to live their entire life in their safe, comfortable, stubborn pair. Individuality, self belief, confidence and a hint of selfishness was needed to make this a perfect dish, an edible one at least. Hence, this year, I decided to change my view, to change the 'resolution' of the image being projected as my life in the universe. My vision and image would both be of high resolution now, making it clearer and easier to comprehend. Out of all the things i heard, a few stuck with me to translate into lifelong teachings. Hopefully these will greatly enhance my chances of success and lead to the ultimate conquering of all things evil and impure. In case that doesn't happen, they will all be bloody brilliant stories to tell and definitely blog worthy posts to share ;)
The new year defined by many by virtue of varied resolutions acquires a demanding identity, each time it is round the corner, coming across as a time for setting of a new rule. This whole resolution concept definitely adds to a mixed PR for the New Year, being perceived by some as a golden opportunity for self improvement, and perceived as a useless/illogical/ thoughtless and glib idea by the remaining.
The end of last year was a little dramatic for me ( never forget it's my over dramatised life full of unique characters and sudden occurrences ). My heart almost skipped a beat, and thought probably the time to fall for a cause is here, but unfortunately, my blurry hints and highly unresponsive responses have continued to carry forward the awkward-what is happening- we need to talk- vibe ahead. Vague and unclear, is what the whole frame looks like right now, with my highly flawed and futile attempts to save my little romantic side from drowning in the desperate sea of surrender.
I have met a lot of new people in the last one year, some interesting, some depressing, some non bearable and some totally worth living my life with. Every single person out of these has felt at liberty to provide a clear opinion about the betterment of my life either through a blunt statement like
" You need to get a boyfriend" or "You need to get out more" or "You need to take less stress ", or by means of suggestive and subtle idea being imposed gently upon me like " One must take control of life after graduation" or "Sometimes an Indian girl needs to just introspect" . It's interesting to observe how others naturally become a part of your life, without you realising when it happened and if you allowed it to. I guess that's how life works once you are busy, in a melting pot of generations and ideologies. Almost all people today feel qualified to effortlessly pass a judgement on others or a suggestion aimed at betterment in their view.
I realised that maybe I was indeed the only one putting myself in various shoes for the comfort of others at every other opportunity I got, while the others were set to live their entire life in their safe, comfortable, stubborn pair. Individuality, self belief, confidence and a hint of selfishness was needed to make this a perfect dish, an edible one at least. Hence, this year, I decided to change my view, to change the 'resolution' of the image being projected as my life in the universe. My vision and image would both be of high resolution now, making it clearer and easier to comprehend. Out of all the things i heard, a few stuck with me to translate into lifelong teachings. Hopefully these will greatly enhance my chances of success and lead to the ultimate conquering of all things evil and impure. In case that doesn't happen, they will all be bloody brilliant stories to tell and definitely blog worthy posts to share ;)
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